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你会安慰人吗？三句话千万别说

2015-09-12 13:02:42| 分类：心灵的鸡汤 | 标签： |举报 |字号大中小订阅

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你会安慰人吗？三句话千万别说

失恋、生病、又挨老板骂……好友遇到困难，受了委屈，你知道怎么安慰TA吗？“别难过了”、“多大点事”、“早跟你说了”，这些缺乏质量的安慰，千万要避免。耐心听TA的讲述，分享相似的感受，给TA肩膀和拥抱，才是最好的箴言。

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